Post Christmas and Preparing for 2009
Monday, December 29, 2008 |12:16 AM

As the years goes by, Christmas & New Year Parties seems to be getting quieter year by year.

In fact, over the years, i 've kinda of lost interest in going for christmas & new year clubbing. I actually much prefer to celebrate these occassions with family and close friends. Are these signs of aging? I certainly hope not! Anyway, i've an exciting Christmas 2008. Many wonderful gifts, though my wish list ain't fulfilled but i ain't disappointed. The gifts given to me are special and i really feel each gift is a thoughtful one, though it may be small/ just even a simple card. In fact, a simple card, a few words can bring a smile to my face and tears to my eyes. Before i continue, i would certainly love to show case some of the pressies i've gotten even after Christmas..

The above is from Sammi.

Ain't this lovable..its from Ledy Diana..and this shall sit in my car!

The above ain't a christmas gift but its from Jem & Joel. Can you believe it? Hello Kitty DVD.

Well well, now that christmas mood is over, i'm sure everyone is as excited as I am to enter into a brand new year. I am excited because a new year means a fresh start. To me, 2009 is going to be exciting. Its going to be exciting year, new beginning with the Lord! So... in 2009, I want to:
~ have 1 more sheep
I remembered when i was approached to take on a sheep this year, my heart was willing but i was more fearful. But now, i really feel happy that i can be an influence in someone's life and i can have this privilege to look after God's flock.
~bring at least someone to church
It's fearful when i first started asking someone to church. But now as i ask, it gets easier. People in my list includes my cousin (esther), my friend (charlene). I really hope to see transformed lives in 2009.
~continue to exercise regularly and eat healthier
I've started a regular exercise regime in 2008 by swimming 2 times a week and 500 daily hula hoops and i hope to continue this in 2009. By having a healthier body, it gives me more energy and a better outward appearance.
~excel in my current workplace
i am loving my job and happy where i am. Just months ago, i was contemplating whether i should move to Macau but i am glad i didn't go. I thank God for putting a stop to my plans and He gave me a much better place. I hope to learn more things, take up more responsibilities and be a influencer to people around me.
~have a soul mate
after lessons learnt and burdens release in 2008, i think i am more ready to have a soul mate in the coming year. but this will only come after the 1st QTR of 2009. In fact, i don't wanna rush God even if i don't have 1 in 2009. Let me trust Him that He will intervene at the right place at the right time. Never early, never late.
oh...i am now getting all excited for 2009!!!!
Next up, while i was packing my cards the other day, i packed all my cards into this box..i shall call this "my precious box" because it contains all kinds of cards -> birthday, farewell, christmas, new year etc.




i'll be thankful for Christmas
Saturday, December 27, 2008 |11:44 PM

I've always love December. Not only for the many holidays but also for Christmas. Christmas for me, since young has always been a season of giving. I remembered when i was young and every Christmas my parents would give me gifts. I remember receiving my barbie doll, doll house and cooking playset. This Christmas, i am thankful. I don't need to be thankful for the BIG things but just the simple things in my life. Thankful that i am able to wake up every morning, for my family, for my friends, for having good health and for having money in my wallet. The list just never ends. But i am thankful.
Most importantly, i thank God for Christmas.
Can one imagine a calendar year without Christmas? Without the lights, the warmth feeling of the festive season and all the finger licking food? To add to that, i can't imagine living throughout a year without being reminded that Jesus came on this special day. Just so to give me life and life to the fullest.

Besides being thankful for Christmas, Christmas to me (ever since being a Christian) is always a busy season. In fact, at least the 2 months leading up to Christmas is busy. A season of outreach. Its a test of stamina to the point i kind of feel stretched. I have this feeling of wanting to just rest and sit back and relax. Well, but i know for now i can't just do as yet. Anyway, i am real tired. So pictures..


On 20/12/2008, above is the place the CG went with our friends. oohh..its been like > 10 years since i last ice skate.

Yours truly - Its me without makeup. Just had my facial. All ready to SKATE!

Wore the skates. yes its my feet

This sunblock costs me a good SGD 73. Bought this-> my facial therapist said my freckles are coming out.


My christmas gifts this season. I just love them


My mum gave this to me..i love perfumes!
On Xmas, i went for a baby shower and this is the lovely baby boy. He's so cute i just love carrying him.




Invitation to Hope Church Xmas Service
Tuesday, December 23, 2008 |9:39 AM

Sorry people, i know its kind of late to be posting this. Christmas is just 2 days away! If you are still considering where to go, i warmly invite you to this service my church is having. Xmas eve service is held on 24 Dec 2008 and i'll be attending the service from 8-10pm @ the Rock Auditorium at Suntec City. Anyone interested can drop me an email. For further details, please refer to http://www.hopesingapore.org.sg/christmas08/christmas08.htm






Marrying "Mr Wrong" is worse than being Single
Thursday, December 18, 2008 |5:32 PM

In recent days, i have been hearing and reading many articles of women in their late 20s or even 30s not getting hitched. I even have discussions with my colleagues and friends onto the various reasons why women are getting hitched at a later age or not even hitched at all. i guess besides women these days being better educated causing them to be financially independent, many women nowadays are afraid of marrying "mr wrong". I will agree with the latter. I've heard too many stories of why people get married:

1) They have been together for very long (> 5 years) that they are so use to each other. Everyone sees them as a couple so its natural that they just end up together.

2) Shot Gun. Don't need to go further.

3) Lonely. They don't care whether they really love the person. They are afraid to be alone. They need companionship.

4) Peer pressure. To attain the status of "married"

5) God brought them together.

Personally, i am more afraid of marrying mr wrong rather than being single. Marrying Mr Wrong has lots of complications. I always felt marriage is for life. Heard too many stories of people spending a bomb on their wedding but to divorce/annul their marriage like a few years down the road. Frankly divorce is expensive and troublesome. Imagine the legal fees, costs incur to sell the house etc. Marrying the wrong guy also causes lots of heartache. Can you imagine living with someone for the rest of your life when you actually don't love the person?

So what do i want in a husband..here goes my list:

1) Must be a Christian. He must be someone who loves God.

2) Must be someone who can correct me lovingly when I am wrong.

3) Must be able to serve with me. (ie. when we serve God must be 1+ 1> 2)

4) Must be someone who's able to lead and decisive.

5) Must have good family relationships and values family ties.

6) Must be someone who talks little and more of a listener. But talk at the right time.

7) Must be wise. Best is filled with God's wisdom.

8) Must be stable in his job.

9) Don't need to be very good looking. Just neat and presentable.

10) Taller than me!

11) No mummy's boy! I don't like guys who still get their mums to buy their underwear/clothes for them when they are an adult!

Ok..that's all my list not very long right? 11 pts only. hiaks hiaks





New Stuff in Dec 2008
|12:29 AM

Just to update some of my extravagant and latest buys in Dec 2008. I was shopping on the public holiday last week and its been some time i wanted to get a key pouch. Couldn't decide which brand i wanted. Due to the Gucci sale, i went to join the QUEUE to get in. So stupid and i felt so disappointed because there wasn't any thing nice on sale. ARGH! waste of my time. Looked @ prada 1) the design was bad or 2) didn't have the color i wanted. Was walking around orchard and chanced upon this brand Kate Spade. I knew of this brand some time ago but didn't really take a look before in the boutique. So i stepped in and found this key pouch i really like. Its fully leather. Exterior is black and interior is PINK! The best feature was that it had something to specially hold car key! Presenting my key pouch..
My key pouch which now holds my car key and house keys!
Next up. I've always been using Lancome mascara and wanted something for a change. Kinda of like Shu Uemura for its packaging and brand and decided to give it a try. Bought it @ Isetan Scotts and was kind of won over by the service staff.

Shu Uemura mascara which is suppose to CURL my eye lashes

Finally, I've been swimming so frequently that my swim wear can't dry up often. Been looking around for a nice and suitable one. Tried Triumph, Speedo, Arena etc but can't find any. While shopping @ Robinsons today I saw this and i liked it alot. The color combination seems a little weird though. So unusual of me to get such a color. But i really love it. My new swim wear. Chio anot?
My new swimwear. what a different color.now i can swim 2 times in a week!




CG Farewell to Arief
Wednesday, December 17, 2008 |10:47 PM

argh!! Blogger ain't working well today. i took so long to upload my photos!! today i moved out of my comfort zone and ate at a place i never imagined i would ever venture into. Over my dead body is what i will say in the past. Oh well well, that was me in the past leh. But God is doing a great job in my life and today i shall share with you all my adventurous night @ this place. But let me clarify my blog is never meant to be a food bloggie. Ok the reason that the CG will explore this eating place is because of Arief. We are having a farewell for him cause he's going back to his home country today. So we decided to eat something he likes. People what he likes ain't what i like! Anyway by the end of it, they offered to give us free membership some platinum card which has discounts in future. Only Jeremy and Arief signed up. Of course i didn't. *giggles*.
A little about the place we went. It serves Authenic XX Cuisine. Its a 5 star super attas eating place. Eating table is made of marble. Atmosphere - i'll rate 4/5. Service - 4/5. Food wise - 3.5/5. But food portion wise - 1/5. The serving was miserable! I shan't keep you all in suspense any longer - the place we went to was:
Aangan Authenic North Indian Cuisine
5 Coleman Street
#02-10 Excelsior Shopping Centre
Signage of the 5 star attas restaurant

The Decor of the place..while waiting for our seats

One of the pictures inside the restaurant

The menu

The meaning behind the word - Aangan

This is Miss Susu & her lovely beau - Mr Kevin
CG waiting for the food

The starter - Papadum

The sauces for the Papadum

Best dish of the night - Reshimi Kebab which is actually chicken kebab

Butter Naan which is actually the Indian Bread. Looks like Roti Prata though

eh..i duno what is this..for all i know its chicken

Eh...i forgot to take down the name of this dish but its chicken curry. Hot and Spicy

Palak Paneer which is actually Cottege Cheese with Spinach

Boneless Fish Curry

The star of the night holding on to the card given by the CG

My sheep -> Frieska enjoying her indian food

The CG in front of the famous fire station

Its yours truly signing off..




...
Sunday, December 14, 2008 |6:11 PM

i don't have a particular title this time. there are just too many things happening in my life to the extend i don't know how to list it all down. where should i start from? hmpfff...its 14 dec 2008 already. almost 1/2 of dec 2008 gone! only 11 more days to xmas..and 17 more days to the end of 2008. i was reflecting upon 2008 and what are the things that impacted me the most. what are the things that took a big blow in my life? what special encounters i have? What do i look forward to in 2009? too many things happened..maybe just list a few

2008:

1) The beginning of 2008 was real -> HECTIC! in fact i didn't even spend the 1st day of 2008 in singapore. Was over in Shenzhen. Well for the 1st quarter of 2008, i was like busy travelling, rushing ASMs, Annual reports, announcements.

2) Finally left my old profession -> being and auditor. Has it been a good decision till date? in fact i do miss the travelling times. I miss the times whereby we travelled in teams, explored places. I miss the cold in china. The freezing cold whereby we stood on the roads trying to hail a cab in Shanghai and ended up sitting in Starbucks for 2 hours to hide from the cold..haha..

3) I finally ended a 2 year on and off relationship. Guess this is the best decision i made with a big deal of sacrifice involved. Many tears had been shed, sleepless nights etc.

4) I have my 1st sheep. yeah yeah..finally learning to take care of people. Plus i finally brought a friend to church. This is a real breakthrough. I never like inviting people to church. Not because i don't have compassion for people but i am just too afraid to destroy the relationships. Afraid how people will look at me.

5) i have a change of shepherd. A shepherd quite different from my previous one. One that teach and scold..and nag hahaha

6) A lot of sisters in my cg. Yes..after persevering whether to leave the church anot. God bless me with alot of sisters in my CG. You know like God says when He blesses it overflows. Now it not only overflows but overwhelms. My group is too noisy!!!

What i look forward to in 2009:

1) Guess many people don't know but i signed up as a volunteer for F1 2009. For those who know me i love cars and i really do. Its my dream to be up close and personal to the F1 drivers. I hope to take a photo with Nico Rosberg..he's so damn cute! whahaa..i really hope to be selected to the volunteer for trackside.

2) That special someone? Christian please. For more info, please drop me an email with resume attached. *hohoho*

3) My Bonus in June/July 2009.

4) More of my friends coming to church and getting to hear the good news!

That's all folks!




Visitation to Beach Road
Thursday, December 11, 2008 |10:19 PM

I've not written for 3 days! nothing much to write in fact. The past few days have been eh--> normal. not much happenings. was busy doing conso for 22 companies the last 2 days and today was doing budget. Afternoon, department had an event whereby we went to distribute food to old folks. We were grouped into team of 4 and had about 5 household each. Area we visited was around Beach Road & North Bridge Area. All are 1 room flat and the folks staying there are all old folks staying alone. As the Lion Befrienders came to brief us yesterday about the old folks, actually there were alot of provoking thoughts in me. Let's not go into it..Anyway, i took a picture of the alley of the Beach Road flat. This alley looks relatively neat. But if you look into some of the flats of the folks. You'll be at a loss of words.

Alley @ the 7th Floor





back from batam..dare to drink again!
Monday, December 08, 2008 |7:49 PM

Hihi i am back from Batam. For those i didn't know, i went to batam with 3 other gfs from the 6-7 Dec 2008. Though the trip might be short but it was enjoyable. Spending time with my dear gfs although the trip really had alot of screw ups! Ok let me begin..i have a warning don't ever use this Travel GSH @ People's Park Centre!!! I have to say they really screw up!!! terrible. First, they said everything was paid for. Then when we reach the HarbourFront Ferry terminal, we had to fork out $20/pax for the ferry. ARGH!!!! Second, they made us alight @ the wrong terminal when we reach Batam! Best right and we have to wait like 45 mins @ the wrong terminal for our tour guide to pick us up!. Third, we signed up for a 1/2 day tour but when we met up with us tour guide, she told us we sign up for a 1 day tour..by the time when we our resort, it was like almost late evening..can't do any watersports liao. BEST LOH!!!! and on our departure day, they said 12pm SHARP will pick us up...we check out @ 12pm sharp waited 45 mins and no driver came. Called up the travel agent and they say they forgot to inform the driver and have to last min find a driver for us..ended up leaving the hotel @ like 2+..can you all see flames around me...nvm going down with my gfs to give them a piece of my mind on tomorrow!

Yes pic pics..in fact i took alot leh..but i shall showcase only a few..

A typical Indonesia Coconut. By the way, i ain't a fan of Coconut but it really taste not too bad

My 2 other gfs - Sammi, Charlene & Me..Happily after our lunch :)
Charlene cheeky look and my sleepy face after lunch
Us going for a dip in the night
Charlene & Sammi all hungry for dinner. But still happily posing for my camera
My dear gf..we were zi-lian-ing in our room before our check out.
ok.For the next photo, i must share the story of it. About 6-7 months ago, mr thomas chew intro me to this drink - Coke Zero. It was our favourite and would always share this drink. However, on 17 May 2008, after our break up, i never ever drank this drink again. Well because drinking it would remind me of me. I always thought i would never pick up this drink ever again. However, as a testimony of release from my bondage with him. On 6 Dec 2008, i pick up the courage to buy this and on 7 Dec 2008, i had the courage to drink this. Yes, i overcame it. I can drink Coke Zero without thinking of him anymore. My chains are gone. I've been set free!
Coke Zero. Definitely better than Coke Light.
Me with Coke Zero! Nice advertisement eh? :p
Yours truly - Princess juliet
Retro feeling - me after a swim..i was dripping wet and taking a pic of myself while waiting for charlene to finish bathing

Me @ the balcony. Background is the resort we stayed in.

Retro feeling again..while waiting for lunch

who else..me again lah. :)
I thank God for giving me this trip and thank Him for my friends who loved me so much. I thank God for setting me free. Anyone wanna treat me to a Coke Zero next time? You are welcome.




Over are the darkest days of my life
Wednesday, December 03, 2008 |10:35 PM

You know there is a common saying that everyone experience different seasons of our life. I just went through i would say "the darkest season of my life" for my whole 27 years ago. But through it all i am so thankful God didn't give up hope on me. In fact, He held me, watched over me and make sure i overcome it. Now i can cheerfully say i have overcome it. Better than before. Stronger than before. Wiser than before. Let me start by thanking the following people:

1) God (Himself for being so faithful)

2) My family, CG, shepherds, friends (for being so supportive)

Without all of you, i wouldn't have been able to go through it. You know who you are.

Somehow in this post i wanted to share with some of you "Part 2" of "The forgiving Heart of God". But Part 2 is named as " Over are the darkest days of my life". I decided to give it a different name because since forgiveness has been found i wanted something new.

After releasing forgiveness in my life towards-> Mr Thomas Chew, i receive an email from this girl. Sorry not revealing her name to protect her identity. But what she sent shocked me..actually she has been following my blog for sometime (thank you my dear girl if you are still following my blog) and she said the guy i described was very familiar and she asked where he worked. I replied to her email and-> Bingo it was the same guy. She left her no. for me and we talked to discover so many things. The surprising thing was that when i knew it was the same guy, i wasn't angry with him. Nope not a single bit. The word to use was "peace". The kind of peace no one can give except for God, Himself. I think i was cooler than a cucumber leh! Hiaks hiaks. In fact i shared with her more about him and my observations about him. We hit it off there and then. :) amazing right?

Even though i know how he cheated on me. I was cool, calm and peaceful. Unbeliveable, but you got to try it for yourself. I would dare say if not because i didn't hold on to the bitterness and i dispense forgiveness i wouldn't have behave this way. I told her this:

me:" i am very confident and i trust God that in time to come He will give me someone who really really loves me. Love me for who i really am. This is how much i trust Him for it."

As i know about the guy background, there was a sense of overwhelming sympathy for him. (dont worry i can differentiate it against loving him). Someone who doesn't know who his mum is since birth, hates his dad for remarrying. Hates his family. Someone who never experience what true love is. Of course, he doesn't know how to love someone. Someone who holds on to so much bitterness and unforgiveness in his heart. How can love ever flow in and out of his life? For someone who never had a mother's love, i believe he desire the attention in his life. That's why he tries to find girls to love him. So he play mind games and manipulate people. Its scary yet pitiful. I told the girl, he has 心病 and these kind need to go through healing. He is so unaware of himself or maybe if he is..he choose to deny it. I don't hate him, i felt he is pitiful. I hope in time to come i be able to pray for him and help him. But that time, it will be a partnership with my future husband that God is giving me and with God Himself. :)




influential me?
Tuesday, December 02, 2008 |8:58 PM

currently i am in the mood to blog. don't know why. maybe because i found my freedom (please refer to my previous post). Knowing that my God loves me makes my heart want to sing (knowledge went from head to heart) so i feel much better and of coz joyful. This kind of joy..can only share with you if you know the Lord personally. Interested? Drop me a mail bah..

back to the topic.. my shepherd (joel) says i am a very influential person. i ponder about that statement. Don't get it in the beginning yet super flattered by it? Me? Influential? cannot be..self denial but yet as events unwrapped it self these few days indeed i am influential. I hope my life through things i share will be also. :)




The Forgiving Heart of God
Monday, December 01, 2008 |11:09 PM

The below is a true story. Its my life story and what i have been going through these 2 years. But the story focus is not on me. But it on the one who cares most about me -> My Lord.

The inspiration to write this is not about myself but because I wanted to really give God the glory for the things He has done in my life.

It all started in 2004 when I joined this accounting firm whereby I got to know this guy. I was his junior and because he was my senior I somehow had this kind of respect and awe of him. However, we weren’t close. He left the firm and joined another accounting firm shortly after I joined. Then in 2005, our paths crossed again because I joined the accounting firm he was in. That was when we started to talk more. We started going out in 2005, but because I caught him “misbehaving” with someone else, I ended it with him.

Then in 2006, he came back and started to sms me and started to sweet talk I was so naïve to listen and knowing his character I got back with him. Through the times, he appears and disappears as and when he likes and I just kept taking him back thinking he will change. However, early this year -2008, I finally had the courage to end it with him. It was a real emotional struggle for me because we have crossed the line. (if you get what I mean)

I had a shepherd back then but I didn’t have the courage to tell her what have happened because from the beginning I wasn’t truthful to her. However, in May 2008, I had a change of shepherd @ the time I was most vulnerable. I didn’t know where I had the courage from, but I shared with her this terrible truth from the very beginning of our shepherding. I very much wanted to make things right with her. But @ the same time, I felt very sorry that she had to shepherd me @ this time where by I am the weakest.

Its Dec 2008 now. Been 6 months since I last broke up with the guy. I must say these 6 months has been painful. The times whereby I cried so hard. I thank God for sending angels into my life. My family who really supports me and a shepherd who loves me and don’t condemn me. But the most important thing I want to share is of how much I know my Lord loves me. From knowing it in my mind, this truth has gone in my heart. Its from the heart that “I know and I know from the depths of my heart that my Lord loves me.” To understand this truth:

“God is my greatest lover.”

Just last week, the guy message me again on wednesday. But I am glad my Lord who loves me so much protected me. God knows that I will be tempted so He made me fall so sick that I didn’t have the energy to meet anymore.

To add on to that, during cg on Tuesday, my cg leader showed the story in John 8:2-11. It talks about the story of the adultress and the Pharisees were asking Jesus what they should do to her. The story ended with this in v11-> “ Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.” Yes, Jesus said “go and sin no more”. It didn’t stay in the mind, it went to the heart.

Last of all, God is and faithful. Just last Sunday (30/11/08), Pastor Jeff preached about “The forgiving Heart of God.” The whole sermon I only remembered this->” In everyone’s heart, each and every person needs to receive and dispense forgiveness.” The first thing during response time was I told God :” Lord, I need to dispense forgiveness. I want to forgive Mr xxx.” After I told God this, I felt a sense of release. A release of forgiveness.

This day I am not afraid or ashame to let you all know because I know God has forgiven me in all aspects. Yes, God has accepted me and “go and sin no more.”





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