Marrying "Mr Wrong" is worse than being Single
Thursday, December 18, 2008 |5:32 PM

In recent days, i have been hearing and reading many articles of women in their late 20s or even 30s not getting hitched. I even have discussions with my colleagues and friends onto the various reasons why women are getting hitched at a later age or not even hitched at all. i guess besides women these days being better educated causing them to be financially independent, many women nowadays are afraid of marrying "mr wrong". I will agree with the latter. I've heard too many stories of why people get married:

1) They have been together for very long (> 5 years) that they are so use to each other. Everyone sees them as a couple so its natural that they just end up together.

2) Shot Gun. Don't need to go further.

3) Lonely. They don't care whether they really love the person. They are afraid to be alone. They need companionship.

4) Peer pressure. To attain the status of "married"

5) God brought them together.

Personally, i am more afraid of marrying mr wrong rather than being single. Marrying Mr Wrong has lots of complications. I always felt marriage is for life. Heard too many stories of people spending a bomb on their wedding but to divorce/annul their marriage like a few years down the road. Frankly divorce is expensive and troublesome. Imagine the legal fees, costs incur to sell the house etc. Marrying the wrong guy also causes lots of heartache. Can you imagine living with someone for the rest of your life when you actually don't love the person?

So what do i want in a husband..here goes my list:

1) Must be a Christian. He must be someone who loves God.

2) Must be someone who can correct me lovingly when I am wrong.

3) Must be able to serve with me. (ie. when we serve God must be 1+ 1> 2)

4) Must be someone who's able to lead and decisive.

5) Must have good family relationships and values family ties.

6) Must be someone who talks little and more of a listener. But talk at the right time.

7) Must be wise. Best is filled with God's wisdom.

8) Must be stable in his job.

9) Don't need to be very good looking. Just neat and presentable.

10) Taller than me!

11) No mummy's boy! I don't like guys who still get their mums to buy their underwear/clothes for them when they are an adult!

Ok..that's all my list not very long right? 11 pts only. hiaks hiaks






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