
the past week has been real packed at work. its time of the year again -> budget, month end closing and Q3 reporting. I am glad at work the schedule is getting busier. Well, at least time pass faster :)
I noticed that when people are busy, they are more negative. It shows on their face and their speech. To cite an example i have this colleague. This colleague of mine is always sulking. Seldom see a smile on her face. Through the conversations i have with her, i realised she is 90% negative. By it, i actually can sense her heart condition -> unhappy. After knowing her more, then i know of her family background and her past. haizzz no wonder. Yesterday i msg her after i left work:
me:" i think if you smile more, you would look more attractive."
her:"unhappy. how to smile."
me:" just try. "
the above was what i really wanted to tell her. I don't know how to better express my desire to see a smile on her face or a more positive speech from her.
In the bible, it says in Luke 6:45
"A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth evil. For out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks."
This reminded me that what we say reflects our heart condition. Is our heart not well? Over the years, i learn to be more careful with my speech. (though i am still making improvements) But i desire that my speech gets more and more positive as days pass. Instead of complaining how busy it is at work, i thank God that i have things to do at work and have a job. Instead of grumbling that i have to wake up early every morning, i start to thank God that He gives me the breath of life to wake up. :)
