
lessons learnt.
Thursday, January 21, 2010 |10:12 PM
Since the beginning of 2010, i learnt a few important lessons:
1) High risk doesn't equivalate to high returns. Being an accounting student and an accountant by profession, I must say taking risks doesn't necessary churn out good returns or should i put it this way, it may not even have any returns. Taking risks in fact can have the consequences :1) good returns, 2) bad returns, 3) no returns, 4) long term returns and 5) short term returns. So depending on what type of person you are, be very cautious whenever you have the urge to take risks. The returns may not be what you want or foresee it to be.
2) This lesson which I am going to mention is 1 that had, is having and will have a great impact in my life. I learnt that I got to be wary of opening my heart to people or put it this way, even being real to people. A lesson I learnt is, even in the closest community, there are people who 笑里藏刀 and when they take out their dagger, it cuts real deep. I've learnt to be wary of such people. Yes, indeed it is a hard lesson to learn but through it I also learnt that opening my heart to people whom be easy anymore. The access to the doorway is now-->SHUT!
3)Another lesson is this-> when relationships aren't stable or not ready to be shaken, its best to leave it as status quo. Certain things takes only stable relationships to be said. If it is spoken without a stable relationship or not knowing how the other party will react, then think twice about saying it out. Even if there is a need for it to be done, should it be done publicly or privately? Think twice!
4)"Rome was not built in a day". How true is this saying! Just imagine with me, when you have been building a structure over a period and you are seeing the structure, then just over a night, an earthquake came and destroyed it. Brought to ground zero. How long will it take to rebuild this structure? I don't know man..I guess by just picking up the pieces will take a time. To talk about rebuilding the structure? Ages perhaps.
