
29 and counting..
Sunday, March 14, 2010 |5:15 PM
Wow! 29...somehow the number seems kinda of scary. But many of my friends in their 30s say "oh well, 29 is still young." Seriously, in my heart it was like "yeah right. bleh". 1 more year before I join the big 3 club. I was telling everyone, now officially I declare I am in my late 20s and I mean real late 20s. But luckily, I don't look like 1. I think I can pass off as someone around 26-27. *hiaks hiaks*. I can't imagine if I hadn't been doing audit in my early 20s, I think I would have looked younger. But truth to be told-> audit and long hours make people age.
As I entered into this new age bracket, many things run through my mind...As usual, people ask "what's your wish?" I ain't someone with alot of wishes, but I do have hopes. So allow me to share abit or at least 2.
1) I hope to know where I am heading in terms of my career. After being in the finance sector for a number of years. (about 6 years in audit and a year plus in commercial), I am rethinking this: Do I want to stay in this line in the long run? As I told some, in the short term, finance is where I am going to stay. I still do enjoy looking at figures, passing double entries, doing consolidation and doing analytics. But what about long run? Sometimes, I really feel its kind of mundane cause I do all these things on a monthly basis. So being at this age right now, I really hope that God will show me where I am heading...
2) Another thing is in the area of a life partner. I am still hoping for "the one" to appear. Most of my life, I've encountered countless JERKS. I do meet some good ones but many just stay as friends... Well, recently as I was talking to some of my friends who are of the same age as me or even older and they are single. They do tell me its scary. Many of them ask me "why no right one appear?" My reply " I don't know!".1 girlfriend recently told me how she felt it was her problem and whether it was because she was too picky and i told her this -> 我不觉得我们很差只是他们没有眼光. Yes, what arrogance but that's what I felt. We somehow concluded that its hard for most local men to appreciate women with Gusto (or what I term as GUTS!) because the men themselves don't have it. My thoughts is this local men nowadays not only lack guts but they have also become less witty. That's why i tell my female friends-> don't be so troubled coz its not you that is no good! It's just that takes a man who's very confident, gusty, secure and someone with a 'drive' in his life to know how to appreciate you (women who are courageous, witty and adventurous). So women, don't freak coz its the men who 走宝 when they fail to appreciate you.
Enough of my hopes! I am thankful for those who remembered my birthday and special thanks to wishes that came in all the way from London & Canada. Friends who live in a different time zone and busy with their work yet they cared enough. :))) My birthday this year was much simplier without much fanfare but with as as much pictures :p

I always love hand made cards from liyi. For those who love hand made cards as well, please do patronise her. Can refer to my link at the left.
While waiting for Shireen and hanging around at Vivo, I saw this warrior and it caught my attention
Following the sumptuous lunch, I proceeded for a manicure & subsequently met Joel. She was late but for a valid reason and she brought me to this place which I've always wanted to visit. Its the "Mint Museum of Toys". I've always wanted to visit the place but most people will feel 'huh, see toys nice meh?" But I am an avid lover of toys and finally..It was a dream come true. Too bad, they don't have a storey dedicated to Japanese Anime. :(
After dinner and some sharing, I had another birthday cake awaiting for me @ home. Special thanks to my brother who lovingly bought this @ Royals.
my 3rd cake for the year. Cheers to 29!
Of couse before I sign off, a few more things to share..When I thought it was all over after being back from BKK. I continued to receive some gifts & cards from friends today. A very special friend who holds an important place in my heart because of the uniqueness of how we started as friends (its quite unimaginable that we started off as enemies) till now that I am truly convinced that she loves me whenever she tells me truth in my life. I am ever so thankful to her that she always manages to see the blindspots in my life and with her gusty nature, she will tell me readily about it.
kimmidoll pen! which reads 'Mizuki' meaning Precious. Put both gifts together and you get "precious friend"
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